Intimate Questions to Ask Your Fucking partner

When people hear the word intimate, they often think that it only relates to bedroom conversation, but intimate questions can cover a much broader spectrum. They can concern anything from your childhood wishes to how your fucking partner pictures your future together. Personalize these, so they relate more to your playmate and your relationship.

General Attraction Questions

There are some things that you just want to know even however they can’t be restrained to a single category. These are the things about preferences, how you talk about one another to others, and maybe even a wish or two thrown into the mix.

1. What is the very first thing you noticed about me?
2. What role does physical attraction play in whether or not you pursue a relationship?
3. What type of smell do you like on a woman?
4. Would you say you have a "type"? Do I fit what you thought you were looking for?
5. How do you describe me to other people?
6. How do you think I should describe you to other people?
7. What could I do for you that I don’t do now?
8. What is the very first thing you think when you see me?
9. What qualities make me special to you?
10. Do you look at other dudes (women)?
11. If you could have three wishes from me, what would they be?
12. What goals do you have for us?
13. What was the very first thing you thought when you met me?
14. How would you react if my appearance drastically switched, either overnight (fresh haircut and different hair color, for example) or over time (more/less muscle, weight build up/loss)?
15. What is something you think is true about me, but you’ve never asked to confirm?
16. How big of a deal are special occasions for you?

Questions About the Past

Before you can stir forward with your fucking partner, you may be the type who wants to know about his or her past. If you’re planning to be intimate or stay together for a long time (maybe even get married), you should feel comfy asking anything you feel you should know, or whatever you’re nosey about. Recall, asking these questions will open the gate to your past, as well.

1. Have you ever cheated on a playmate? If not, have you considered it but switched your mind?
2. How many past playmates have you had?
3. Did you debate whether or not to ask me out? Why would you have chosen not to?
4. What were you thinking on our very first date?
5. Have you ever been in love before me?
6. Who is your role model in life? Who is your role model in love?
7. What did it feel like when you realized you were in love with me?
8. Do you think we were so destined to be together, that if we hadn’t determined to date when we did and lost touch, we’d run into each other again?
9. What were you looking for when you found me? Were you looking for love at all?

Questions About the Future

Want to know if you and your paramour are compatible long-term? Ask the hard questions about where things are going. Go as far into the future as you feel like you should, but keep the current length of your relationship in mind and the plans you’ve already discussed before you ask about things like financial planning for retirement, or you may give the wrong impression.

1. Where do you see this relationship headed in the next year? What about the next five years?
2. What is your opinion on marriage and children?
3. Would you stay with me if you found out I was incapable to bear children?
4. What are your occupational goals and how could they affect our relationship?
5. Where do you see yourself living when you retire?
6. I want to be a good paramour, and I want to be there for you. What can I do for you to be that woman or man?
7. How do you imagine a day in the life of us, married with kids? What about a week in the life?
8. What are your thoughts on having our elderly parents live with us if they can’t live on their own one day?
9. How do you plan to save for retirement? What are your goals?

Questions About Love

People express love in so many different ways; it’s significant to get a good understanding of what will speak to your fucking partner’s heart. You also most likely have questions about their thoughts and feelings (past and present) on love.

1. What can I do to demonstrate you how much I love you?
2. Do you believe in soul mates? What about love at very first look?
3. Have you ever been hurt in the past and questioned the possibility of love?

Questions About Closeness

Intimity is an significant part of any serious relationship. It’s not all about what goes on in the bedroom. Of course, that may play a role in your relationship, but there are things you can do outside of the bedroom or nights you can plan based on your significant other’s fantasies. Don’t be timid. If you want to know something, just ask.

1. Is our relationship physical enough for you? What would make it better in your eyes?
2. How and where do you like to be touched?
3. Do you have any fantasies you would like fulfilled?
4. What are your thoughts on fucktoys?
5. Is there anything we haven’t attempted that you’d like to?
6. Ideally (and a bit realistically, too), how often would you like for us to be intimate?
7. What are some things I can do outside of the bedroom to keep the feelings of closeness going all day?

Choose What You Want to Know

Note when you pose an intimate question for your playmate, you need to be open to listening. You may get an reaction you are astonished by or you don’t want to hear. Even so, it’s significant not to judge your fucking partner or get angry. If you find yourself upset or astonished, take a moment to digest what your playmate has told you before responding. Reminisce, there are no ideal people in the world, and the two of you are not going to agree on everything. However, you need to stay focused on what you want in the relationship and determine if you are both on the same page. Open communication is often the key to lasting love. Keep in mind your playmate may want to ask you intimate questions in comeback, so be ready to response them. Relationships are give-and-take, after all.

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