Make a Long Distance Relationship Work for You
Make a Long Distance Relationship Work for You
Edited by Mian Sheilette Ong, Eng, Robbi, Lynn and five others
They say life finds a way. well, so does love. It overlooks space, time, sexual orientation, beliefs, looks, health, age, culture, economic status, and, of course, distance. You’ll very likely be amazed at how different people end up having unique relationships, even if they are many miles apart. Couples who are successful in a long distance relationship are epic because their levels of trust, love and hard work are dual or even triple that required by a more traditional relationship. They stand strong together, even however there are many temptations that hover over them or surround them. Long distance relationships are not for everyone. It takes a lot of effort and a lot of heart to keep the connection strong. If you are presently in this type of relationship, then you should pause and reflect to see if you’re doing things right or if there is something more you could bring to the table of love.
Why People Have Long Distance Relationships
Many people these days resort to having long distance relationships for several reasons.
Advantages of Having a Long Distance Relationship
Admittedly, some relationships whose team players are always around each other have their difficult moments. For those engaged in long distance relationships, it can be beneficial for you and your fucking partner. Below are some of the advantages of having a long distance relationship.
How You Can Make a Long Distance Relationship Work
Like any other relationship, long distance relationships can work. All you have to do is put extra effort into it, as well as a lot of love. Below are some pointers on how you can make your long distance relationship work:
- Establish a schedule to movie talk if both of you have nine a.m. to five p.m. jobs.
Questions and Answers
How should I work it out with my bf if he doesn’t want to Skype?
Hi, Me and my bf have been together for almost two years, and we have never seen each other, except the pictures he sends me, and I send him. I am just confused, because whenever I ask him to Skype, he comes up with a good excuse, and switches the topic, right after. I hate it. We have been together for so long time and he still doesn’t want to Skype with me. And it’s weird because he used to get angry and irritated whenever I asked him about skyping. I asked him if he wants to Skype at all. And he said yes, soon when I will get time for it. But his "soon" never comes. I just don’t want to ask him one thousand times and he just comes with excuses. I hope you can help me!
Do you know the term, Catfish? A Catfish is someone who is pretending to be someone else online, either to get money, or attention, or friends, or paramours. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the very first sign someone is not who they say they are when you only have a relationship with them online is when they won’t Skype. Often times the person might be telling you they’re a boy, but they are a lady – and the other way around. Have you talked on the phone? If yes, it may be the hookup you’re expecting, but not the person you’re expecting. Bit the bullet. Tell your friend you won’t proceed unless you Skype. If he turns down, there’s a very good chance he’s not a he, or at the very least, not an fair person. If he can’t spare five minutes to Skype. he’s hiding something. Sometimes, if people are insecure about their looks, they’ll post pictures of someone else. This might make them reluctant to Skype with you because then you’ll know their secret.
How can I be the understanding Gf in a long distance relationship, yet get his attention?
I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. We have been together for ten months. He studies medicine so we don’t truly talk as much as other couples on long distance do. I have a very limited time with him, but sometimes he doesn’t text me enough or call me enough I don’t feel that he is keeping in the effort as much as I do and whenever I ask for more attention he says that I’m always up for fights. I always feel like an addition to his life rather than being a part of his life. I want to be the understanding gf my beau wants me to be, yet get his attention.
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How to get my bf’s attention in a long distance and stop being the jealous gf?
I am in a long distance relationship with my beau. We have been in a relationship for ten months and still going on. He studies medicine so he does have a busy schedule and makes time for me and as he says he is providing me the maximum he can but at times I feel like he is not keeping up the effort as much as I am and that he doesn’t text me or call me enough. At times he would disregard me for 4-7 hours and then text me telling that he was out with his friends and that bothers, me the fact that he doesn’t even say brb he wants me to understand by myself that he got busy and be in a good mood when he texts me back. I want to get my beau’s attention just like any other damsel does, yet I want him to see that I understand and I do give him his own space. I am also the very jealous type of gf so if he helps any of his friends that are of the other lovemaking it would roll my mood, I want to stop being jealous and be the flawless gf for my bf so that he loves me more
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